Saturday, 2 November 2024

The Alchemy in Three of Us...

 

Picture Courtesy: FC

The genre of film has become inseparable from the life of an ordinary human being. The world of films endows one with a world of varied shades in shards. Some flicks don’t leave us even after we leave the platforms of celluloid miracles. Some haunt us, some grip us, some move us, some exemplify us, and some make us ponder over the leitmotifs for long. It does not matter whether the film has hit the box office or whether it has been nominated for awards, but the quality and the timelessness of the theme do matter!

I came across one such movie quite recently on the platform of Netflix. My husband felt it was a must-watch one for me. Without hesitation, I embarked on the cinematic journey of Three of Us carving out a moment of respite from the mundane chaos of everyday life.

“Memory is the diary we all carry about with us”, says the renowned writer, Oscar Wilde.  What happens if our memory betrays us? What happens if daily routine becomes vague and usual happenings pass out of mind? We tend to take a break from the lunacies and absurdities of mundane life. Avinash Arun takes us on one such journey through the narrow crossroads and by lanes of childhood memories.

The movie Three of Us screened at the recent IFFI unravels the labyrinth of human emotions blurring in the shards of memories. Shailaja Patankar played flawlessly by Shefali Shah takes us to the world of a woman diagnosed with dementia and the way she tries hard to fit into the daily rhythms.

Shailaja is in the initial phase of early onset dementia. She comes out of the fettters of her job in the family court and sets her mind free to roam around in her childhood fantasies. Her husband Dipankar, an insurance agent, joins her to fulfill her cherished desire to gather her repertoire of childhood images. When memories begin withering, when the humdrum of daily life despises you for your inability to remember things, it’s better to try once to feel some solace to overcome this catastrophe.

Shailaja’s journey to the village of Vengurla along with her husband turns out to be the real journey to find her origin (Udgam). The village brings her to life, comfy with the shades of humans and the surroundings. She revisits her eighth standard classroom with her friends whom she meets after twenty-eight long years. The mogambo and daga of childhood come afresh in her memories. The bonding and childhood friendship make us feel that they are still close no matter how different and distant they are geographically.

Picture Courtesy: The Hindu

Shailaja comes across her childhood incomplete love, Pradeep Kamat who is a bank manager by now. He becomes a companion to the ‘wonderful, strange’ plans of Shailaja and Dipankar. Pradeep’s wife Sarika also supports him in fulfilling the wish of his childhood friend who has inspired him scribble a poem after eons, about origins – Udgam. Shailaja is in search of her origin and trying to fix the withered pages of her life in the village that slowly unfurls the dark stories of her family and sister.

It’s commendable how the wife and husband pairs of the film support each other. Seeing the happiness and attachment of Shailaja with her childhood land and Pradeep, Dipankar asks her, “Were you this happy with me? She retorts “When we were sad last time?” The chemistry and the relationship they nurture make one sense of the companionship and the possibility of bestowing a new ending to her life.

To read my full article, check https://www.boloji.com/articles/54456/three-of-us-in-all-of-us


A movie worth watching to find a room of one’s own always and in all ways!


Monday, 26 August 2024

The Art of Speaking

 

Speaking is the vital manifestation of everyone’s life. It’s indeed an art where one’s heart too gets an avenue to express and share the varied emotions of day to day existence. It’s the act of giving life to one ‘s feelings, passions and sensations through the world of words. It is capable of creating wordly/ worldly wisdom too. It occurs even faster than the fraction of a second. Though language is a pivotal tool for communication, gestures and eye contacts do convey the ideas effectively at times. We speak through the medium of words, eyes, hand movements, gestures and what not. The ultimate aim is to convey the expressions to the other person/ receiver. The art of speaking is a multifarious process. Everyone craves to speak in the midst of the sick hurry and palsied hearts of divided aims.

In the hustle busy of the daily life, everyone is engrossed in their own world. People are curious to share and update the status to make the world know they are active in their real and virtual life. It’s almost like a competition to declare to the world that one is chilling and enjoying in one’s private sphere of life. The profile updates, status and stories are also trying to speak to the known and unknown faces, real and virtual faces through the book of faces . The discourse of speaking is mastered by the social media, emoticons and GIFs too. Life is suffused and brimming with the art of speaking in all ways. To learn the art of speaking to captivate the hearts is a prowess. The Kaleidoscopic charm of speaking can enthrall hearts. Language is not a bar for speaking. Speaking embraces both verbal and non-verbal faculties. It thrives in everyone’s life.
Everybody wishes to speak and let their expressions get life. Having someone to talk to and share the daily occurrences of the day is a great feeling. Sadly, all are in a hurry to speak and nobody wishes to listen. The art of speaking is kept in a high pedestal in comparison with the art of listening. To become a successful speaker, one needs to be a good listener. The perspectives of life from other angles, other view points will add beauty and life to the art of speaking.

Speaking is infact a milestone in a baby’s life. The babbling and prattling acts are moulding him to make a mega entry into the realm of effective speaking. The peals and squeals of laughter bestowed by a baby are of great delight to all. This motivates and prompts him to learn, try and speak more in his own syllables and words. Speaking as an art is nurtured right from the stage of infancy to the ongoing safari of life. One lives to speak and one can’t resist oneself from speaking. Just like a child or new born trying inquisitively to give rhymes to his feelings, all are curious to share their feelings and happiness to others. Speaking grows with one as time passes. It also attains maturity with the events one encounters in one’s life cycle.
Looking at my two year old baby trying hard to speak with his own limited, invented dictionary and vocabulary, I feel his impressions of speaking will also ripen along with his age. I earnestly wish to see him ripening as a good speaker mastering the art of listening as well.
Yes, speaking is the art attuned with the symphony of the syllabic heart…

Agni by Sithara S. is the Story of a Rape Victim's Non-violent Revenge

The term ‘rape’ has become a part of the active vocabulary of multitudes across the globe. The stories of vulnerable rape victims and sexually assaulted women folk hit every day’s newspaper irrespective of the follow-up stories of the unprecedented COVID-19 pandemic, the FIFA World Cup, and the list goes on.

The celluloid medium with a duration spanning two to three hours has also been depicting the pathetic plight of rape victims with all its harrowing visual and emotional images. Similarly, in literature, such as ‘Agni’ by Sithara S., these narratives are profoundly explored.

The sagas of rape and rape victims have garnered expression in the creative scapes through fiction and non-fiction. They have become a part of the academic parlance as well.

The acclaimed American writer Mark Twain has been right in stating that truth is stranger than fiction.

The GoFundMe campaign for the Iowa Teen Pieper Lewis deserves mention here. Pieper who was then 15 and a victim of human trafficking, killed the man who raped her multiple times. She was ordered by the judge to pay 15000 dollars to the family of her alleged rapist.

Pieper Lewis has been in the news and social media for the past few weeks. The fire that was burning within her made Pieper Lewis stab Zachary Brooks.

No family, society, or government machinery could stymie her from the decision to punish the victim in her way. Albeit truth is stranger than fiction, some creative outpourings make one feel, sense, and sympathize with the victim.

No one causes rape but rapists!

In her memoir, Girl in the Woods, Aspin Matis says:

“She told me that my rape was not my fault, that I should feel no shame, that – simple as it may sound – I hadn’t caused it. No one causes rape but rapists. No one causes rape but rapists. No one causes rape but rapists. It was true. And it had not been obvious to me. And hearing it from someone else, a professional, someone who should know, helped me believe that soon I would believe it.”

Pondering deeply over these words makes one ascertain that rape is not the fault of the victims and they should not feel that it has marked the end of their life. Let’s go through one such story that carries all the burning flames of a rape victim or a sexually battered being.

S. Sithara’s story unravels the plight of a rape victim

S.Sithara’s short story entitled ‘Agni’ (Fire) unravels the plight of the protagonist Priya and how she reacts and responds to it. “Agni” by Sithara S. is a testament to her talent as a frontline short story writer in Malayalam, born and raised in Kasaragod, Kerala.

All of her stories share a distinct individuality with the novel way of approach. Most of her stories carry the motif of women and the issues revolving in, around, and within the so-called weaker sex.

She has succeeded in depicting new roots and routes of exploring womanhood and sexuality in the Malayalam literary realm. Indeed, the misfortunes and issues of women are dealt with a poignant and poised style of expression through her word smithy.

Moreover, her stories mainly focus on the oppression of women and sexuality in public domains. Interestingly, her characters do not wish to take the often beaten tracks of passivity and subservience. Instead, they choose the road less traveled and depict their reactions to the atrocities in a self-satiating manner.

A New Perspective on Womanhood

Her characters do not intend to waste their time thinking of fate. They try to move ahead in life rather than ending their lives out of shame and dishonor. Circumstances make her women characters rebellious and fight against the injustice shown to them by the hegemonic patriarchal society.

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Her awards and accolades for her writing, including “Agni” by Sithara S., comprise the Kerala Sahitya Akademi award, Gita Hiranyan award, and Kendra Sahitya Akademi Yuvasahitya award. She also translated the works of Nobel Laureate Malala Yousafzai into Malayalam.

‘Fire’ (Agni) is the short story that earned Sithara the fame of a notable women writer in Malayalam. ‘Fire’ is the story of Priya, the girl who is gang-raped by three men.

The typical woman as depicted previously various other narratives, in this situation, should think about suicide. But Priya subverts all the conventional practices. Sithara made a mark of her own with her collection of stories entitled Agni and Stories.

It’s overt from the title how Agni (Fire) stands out from all the rest in the creative sphere of this firebrand writer. The story written almost a decade ago has created a stir in the literary sphere.

How can a victim take her revenge?

S. Sithara’s extraordinary short story “Fire”, also known as “Agni” by Sithara S., depicts the story of a girl gang-raped by three men and the way she protests against this brutal and heinous act.

The story originally written in Malayalam has been translated into English by R.K. Jayasree. It has been adapted into a short film as well. Priya, the protagonist of “Fire” does not wish to be treated with sympathy and remain like a victim.

Her small triumphs in the form of questioning masculinity give her great satisfaction.

In an interview given to Samyukta journal, Sithara shared her views on creating a character like Priya:

“Violence against women is on the increase now. Once when I was writhing with moral indignation at the situation, the image of a girl came to my mind — a girl who in her special way, takes vengeance upon her violators. That’s how ‘Fire’ broke out. But after writing the story, I felt the character was not even half powerful as I intended her to be”

“Fire” has generated a lot of discussions and debates in academic circles for the unorthodox rendition of an incident like rape. The aura of gang rape, physical abuse, verbal abuse, shame, humiliation, revenge, masculinity in question, love, and triumph comes into the ambit of the short story.

Spoliers for Agni

In “Agni” by Sithara S., Priya, who is gang-raped by Sanjeev, Ravi, and the stripling, feels she is “the most humiliated woman on earth”. Someone has even taken the claim of her menstrual blood, which hitherto had solely been her own. Though she felt she has become the most dispossessed woman, she goes to the office as usual.

She happens to meet the ones who raped her the other day. They warn her not to disclose anything to anyone and that they won’t mind killing her and her people.

The volley of abusive words was followed by a query by Sanjeev, the first one to rape her; how did it feel yesterday? His smiling face darkened into a scowl with her unexpected reply; “You were simply not up to the mark. You don’t pack enough punch. I don’t think you will ever be able to satisfy a woman.’

Then she turned towards Ravi. ‘But I liked you very much. You are a real man.’ Touching his cheek lightly once and looking from one face to the other, both of which were full of suspicion and consternation, she climbed the steps and walked away.” This befitting reply in fact questions and ridicules the masculinity of Sanjeev.

Priya subverts all the expected reactions of a rape victim

In the narrative of “Agni” by Sithara S., Priya subverts all the expected reactions of a rape victim. Contrary to the expectations of the conservative society and the inquisitive readers, Priya does not think of committing suicide. There’s not even a stain of depression making her confined to the corner of the house. The typical woman, in this situation, should think about suicide. But Priya subverts all the conventional practices.

The next week Priya goes every day to Sanjeev’s booth to make phone calls. She calls up all her friends whose numbers she knows and talks to them, watching, in a spirit of revenge, the feeling of inferiority creeping over his face every time he saw her.

Each time she reminds herself that there is nothing that gives greater satisfaction than small triumphs. Priya tries to find happiness in small and simple ways by humiliating Sanjeev and Ravi.

Love as a Form of Revenge

Priya’s revenge took the form of love and she told Ravi that she liked him. Ravi was the stranger with lust in his eyes and that started haunting her thoughts.

She was her first man in every sense. It was only later that she realized it was him. When Ravi dominated Priya that day, it was a sense of shame that she felt at first.

But she began to like him and felt that the others’ acts of domination only provided a yardstick to measure him. Her blood and tears would crave for him. He was the prison cell she could not afford to leave. Ravi turns out to be in a prison cell and his love becomes revenge for Priya.

Although Ravi has dominated her or locked her up in a prison cell of physical humiliation, he captivated Priya in the prison cell and she evoked a feeling of love in him. As a result, Priya saw the tears in his eyes and Ravi sat watching her smile.

Her love is capable of hurting him. Priya has emerged triumphant in showing vengeance in her simple satisfactory ways.

A story of revenge formed by small triumphs

‘Fire’ is a tale of revenge and small triumphs. A woman is always burning with desire. Just like the flames of fire, she is also burning and brimming in her life. She does not wish to surrender her highly spirited self to those who had taken the claim even on her menstrual blood.

Priya stands as an epitome of a spirited girl who wishes to fight against all odds with her small triumphs and revenge.

When Sithara’s “Agni” written in Malayalam becomes “Fire” in English, a lot of changes do happen. Language being the spokesperson of a particular locale is capable of rendering the flavor and favor of local.

Translating Agni into Fire brought it to the global audience

When a text is translated from the source to the target language, there emanates a new text somewhere standing in between the nuances of both languages. Albeit there are concerns of untranslatability, it’s the need of the hour to translate a text from a local reader perspective to a global one.

Language turns out to be universal rather than remaining as regional or national. Sithara’s “Agni” written in the Malayalam language is heard across the alien shores only because of the possibilities of translation.

Above all, fictional images of rape and rape victims are there in almost all languages. The transit of sagas through the arena of translation makes them reach a greater audience.

Wider reach and rampant discussions on the hotcake sort of topics in academic, literary, social, and political forums will bring out a sea change into something rich and strange.

Let’s thrive for a better world and indulge in a creative world War Against Rape.

Sources: 

  • Matis, Aspen. Girl in the Woods: A Memoir, William Morrow, 2015
  • Sithara, S. Agniyum Kadhakalum, Kozzhikode: Mathrubhoomi Books, 2004
  • Samyukta: A Journal of Gender And Culture
Agni by Sithara S. unveils Priya's fierce protest against her gang rape. A stirring story of resilience against brutal injustice. First published in Women's Web in 2022.


Saturday, 20 July 2024

Neelachadayan's Heartwarming Tale

“Either write something worth reading or do something worth writing”, says Benjamin Franklin, the acclaimed Statesman.  Akhil K, who bagged the notable Geetha Hiranyan Endowment Award 2022 instituted by the Kerala Sahitya Akademi for his debut anthology of short stories,  Neelachadayan exemplifies this adage. Akhil, hailing from  Paravanthatta village of Kannur district churns out roads and words efficiently. The stages of real life prompted to him play varied roles as a newspaper boy, sand mining worker, driver, JCB operator and what not. Albeit life had taken a different turn, Akhil’s passion for words lingered. The bipolarity of day and night has bestowed him with the paths of conscious driving and carefree writing. The day makes him work as a JCB driver. Despite the strenuous routine, he attempts a creative flight of fancy with his boundless realm of imagination in the night mode. He is again on the road now but a different road where his stories remain drenched. He enjoys sailing in the ocean of mighty words like a mission possible. Here is Akhil K. in an online conversation with me.

  

Q: How did the idea to write a short story or novel pop up?

In the initial phase, I started writing for cinema. As I never got an opening in the field, I switched to the field of writing fiction only as a substitute. It was always my plan B.

Q: Could you please share your experience on bagging Kerala Sahitya Akademi’s award?

I felt happy about the Akademi award. I was never over excited like others or what people think. When I shared the cover page of this short story collection in fb, I was criticized, trolled and humiliated for my comment that I will achieve Akademi award with the publication of my first five books. People might not say so. I don’t know. It was just a calculation of me about myself and my writing. When our calculations big or small turn out to be a reality, we feel happy. Mine is a self published collection with limited copies. It  was nowhere in most of the book stores. I feel happy when I think my book has represented and inspired many aspiring writers who are denied the opportunities to come to the limelight and who are not fortunate to publish their works.

Q: What did the process of writing Neelachadayan teach you?

I was always trying to be creative in my life. I was collecting some materials for my writing all my life. I write with the same seriousness even now after the publication. I never thought I would get a chance to come and exist in the field of writing. Almost 13 publishers rejected my Neelachadayan and I had to end up in self publication with limited copies. I faced a lot of  hardships in the process. Many books of good quality produced during this time ( far better than my fiction)are seen nowhere now, I feel. There are lot many things beyond the quality of the work. What I learnt from my experience is to give an extra 30 or 50 percent effort while in the workshop of writing rather than in the phase of marketing.

Q: Your token of advice to the aspiring writers?


Always remain focused on your writing and go to any extent to accomplish your creative smithy.













This was published last year ( A much delayed blog post)
To read my full interview article, check https://prd.kerala.gov.in/en/home-1


Saturday, 6 July 2024

REVISITING LAHARINAGAR

Missing Johanna Madam and the lovely evening you created for Lil Anvi and family. Dedicating this simple poem of mine to my dearest and adorable soul. Loads of love to Anvi's Jonaaa Aunty!!!!!



Far away from the madding crowd

Unmindful of the endless dusty road

There I came across a kindred spirit

On a drizzled charming twilight

Laharinagar was all set to welcome us

The manifestation brimmed with her happiness.


The full poem can be accessed here. First published by Spillwords  https://spillwords.com/an-auspicious-rendezvous/

Friday, 9 December 2022

In Conversation With Mahnaz Mohammadi

Published in Janapadam
The 27th International Film Festival of Kerala (IFFK) will honor Iranian filmmaker and women’s rights activist Mahnaz Mohammadi with the ‘Spirit of Cinema’ award. The announcement was made by Kerala State Chalachitra Academy President Ranjith at a meeting convened to constitute the organizing committee of the festival to be held in Thiruvananthapuram from December 9 to 16. Filmmakers, whose passion for cinema shines through even in the most difficult of circumstances, was first awarded to Kurdish filmmaker Lisa Callan. Ms Mohammadi, who has been a vocal for women’s rights in Iran for several years, was active in the ongoing protests in Iran following the death of 22-year-old Mahsa Amini after she was arrested for not wearing a hijab. Government decree. Her major documentaries include ‘Women Without Shadows’, ‘Travelogue’ and ‘We Are Half the Iran Population’. In 2019, she directed her first feature film ‘Sun Mother’, which was premiered at the Toronto International Film Festival. 

Here's my interview of Mahnaz Mohammadi for Janapadam, the magazine of Information and Public Relations Department, Government of Kerala

1- Is film a powerful tool to fight for the truth about women?

I believe that it can be one if it is used as a mirror that reveals the reality of

women’s situation, especially when it is the point of view of women, and not men

whose hands are tied to the patriarchy. Then I can say that it will be the voice of

the voiceless.

2- Can you trace the changes that have occurred in the past two decades in

your filmmaking?

The greatest change perhaps in my opinion is that I have gone from portraying

women who were separated from the society by being behind bars in Women

Without Shadows to children who experienced separation within the society in Son-

Mother. The unchangeable element in all of these narratives are the literal and

metaphorical bars that dictate lives in Iran.

3- In your interview you did with Screen Daily, you pointed out the identity of

women as being guilty. You have even mentioned in many of your interviews

that just being a woman and a filmmaker is sufficient for you to be treated as

a criminal. What happened for you to say this? Are there limitations for you

as a woman?

You are automatically guilty when you deviate from a role that a society has

prescribed for you before you were even born. Such a society even assigns you role

models that perpetuate an ideal that strays and strips a woman from her wants and

assigns you the role of a mother who would be willing to send her son to be

sacrificed for the regime’s ideology. As a woman, if you so much as question this

role, contradict this fate, you have committed a crime.

4- Did the torture that you faced in prison turn you into a fearless filmmaker?

How do you see your evolution as a filmmaker?

This is a difficult question to answer because I believe that fearlessness is an

acquired character trait, and not an inherent one. My circumstances are not

inherent to any character traits. Let me put it for you in this way. Given my

circumstances, I have had no choice but to create a new path for myself. In the

beginning, I made movies as a path towards self-discovery and investigation of the

society, but right now I believe that I should merely occupy the place that I am in

without making any claims or commitments to what I may not be able to deliver.


To read my full article, kindly click https://prd.kerala.gov.in/publications